Hi to all those people out there who have visited my website and still come back time and again to get the information that is available on the site and hopefully get the help you need. My book is still available for anyone who needs a copy all you need to do is contact me and I will make arrangements to get it to you.
Please don't forget to go to the abuse is no excuse blog and you can purchase it there too.
It has been such a long time since I wrote about my own journey and thank goodness those years are long gone and my life has been back on track for a long time. It is so sad to me to know that this is not an unusual story and many women around the world have been through and are still going through similar situations to my own. I don't see things getting any better as far as the legal system goes so all one can hope for is that if you are reading this, you will make the decision yourself to END THE ABUSE. Of course I know that it is not easy and I know when there are children it is even more difficult, but have a plan and stick to it.
I have always thought that being in an abusive relationship is like being held captive, similar to a hostage being held captive by terrorists. The trauma and fear is no different. As women we are SO much stronger than we think we are and when we put our minds to something we can usually achieve the results we need. Plan your escape in the same way. Pray about it, dream it, believe it and put small things in place until one day, you will be free.
Stay strong.
Caryl
